“Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.” ~The Dalai Lama
I was born and brought up in small town of Himachal Pradesh, India. People there are generally happy and warm. Even my friends say I am a happy-go-lucky person. If you were to ask someone who knows me to describe who I am, undoubtedly one of the first things that they will say is that I am a happy person, no matter what the situation is.
After finishing my Schooling I moved to Delhi and then Mumbai where I finished my post graduation and got opportunity to work in MNC respectively.
While living in the City and working with a MNC, I got so used to seeing grumpy faces all over that I had almost forgotten to smile. People here would seldom smile, sometimes even if they know you they won’t pass a smile. Even if they smile, then it is a kind of forced one and never natural.
I was thinking the other day about what someone once said to me when I was back in office one day. The person asked me ‘hey Anjali, why do you smile so much?’ And that question then made me so awkward that I slowly started forgetting the natural gesture to smile with time.
As years passed, I took break from this Corporate world because of my baby. Here I started realising that I am missing something very badly. But thanks to my 3 year old daughter, I soon realised the missing magic and today I am happy person all again. One day I was just sitting and watching my daughter playing at the garden, she was skipping, hopping and jumping fearlessly…. This triggered my thoughts and my mind trailed back to my childhood flashback showing me glimpses of a girl who could laugh, smile, giggle and be happy even for very small things.
My question is, Why shouldn’t we be generous with our smile? If we smile, we aren’t losing anything. Little we realize that smiling would do a lot of good things not only to others, but to yourself as well. Smile helps people never to feel alone in the world. In all these years I have figured that no one is responsible for your happiness but you. So keep smiling and be happy 😊🤗.
Thanks for reading💕
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© Anjali Sharma, Positive Side Of The Coin
You are so blessed with the gift to keep smiling and stay happy😊
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Thank you so much 💕😇
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I was born in Himachal Pradesh too! It’s such a beautiful place.
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Yes it is, thanks for reading 🙏💐
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A smile can really make us happy and energetic
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Yes indeed, thank you for reading 🙏😊
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I am surely lucky to meet a happy person like you. Bravo!
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Thank you so much 💐🙏
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Absolutely.. totally agree with you.. 🙌🏼😇👍🏼😇👌🏼
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Thank you 🙏💕
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What a beautiful blog you have! The positivity here is a wonderful contribution to your readers! And everything here says so much about You! Lovely and Grace …
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Thank you so much for dropping by💖, have a beautiful day ahead 💐🙏💕
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What a delightful reply!😊☀️Thank you!
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Reblogged this on quirkywritingcorner.
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Thank you 🙏💕
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A smile goes a long way to making your own, or someone else’s day better. The caveat is: Don’t ever tell another person to smile – you don’t know what burden they are carrying but you can offer them your smile, and maybe for that moment their burden may lift just a tiny bit for just that moment in time.
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Yes Indeed Grace, thank you for dropping by; have a great day 🙏💕💐
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I love this post! I knew from seeing your photo you are a kind person. You really have a great smile. 😊❤️
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Thank you so much Winnie, you too have beautiful smile 👌, I am so sorry for late reply, just saw your message. Thanks once again 🙏💕
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You’re welcome, Anjali! It’s okay. No worries. Thank you for that compliment. 😊❤️
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❤️🤗
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Happy post , I must say 😀❤️
Keep smiling 😇
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Thank you so much, you too keep smiling 🙏💐💖
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How nice to learn more about you. And you know what, a smile does cost nothing xxxxxx
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Yes very true, thank you for kind words; have a nice day 🙏😊💕
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You too. Smile lots xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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So much positivity in your post..Smile matters a lot..
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Thank you, have a nice day 🙏💕💐
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Have a great week ahead…
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I totally agree with you. Smile spreads the happiness not only around us but also within us.
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Indeed, thank you for reading; have a nice day 🙏💐😊
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Indeed. Our smile can change our life. Thanks for sharing it. I think I was missing it. ❤
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Smile is the most precious accessories we can wear everyday…have a nice day😘😘
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Yes indeed, thank you for reading; you too have a nice day💖🙏
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Your always welcome…reading such a good article is make us relaxing☺😊
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🙏💕
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😁😁😁❤💋💜
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Beautiful and true 💖
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Thank you so much 🙏💖
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No problem 💕
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Great. Thanks
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My pleasure, have a great day 🙏💕
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Sry true!
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Thank you, I am so sorry for late reply, I just saw this message in spam box… thank you once again 🙏💕
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That’s fine pleasure 🙂
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I totally agree. I too am working with an MNC and have seen people like this. Many times, I would smile if I see someone who I knows, and they won’t smile back. It was really awkward. It’s like their goal is to just work and not to live.
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Hahaha true, but you keep smiling, have a great day 🙏💕😊
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So right…smile is such a beautiful gift👍🏻
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Thank you, have a nice day 🙏💕😊
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Good morning, have a nice day 🙏
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Jay shree Krishna 🎉🌟🙏
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🙏💐
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Such a positive post. Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you so much, have a great day ahead 🙏😊💐
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Agree with you Anjali. Smile is an accessory people have forgotten to wear these days.
Please do continue smiling and help it spread across miles, as they say a smile is contagious 😊. Have a lovely day 💙
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Thank you Radhika, have a great day ahead 💖🙏😊
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A relevant post. I think we don’t smile because we set our standards in relation to others. Better car, house, promotion etc. We feel inferior, we feel being used and we become angry. We as individuals have to set our comparators carefully. Then we may smile again.
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Thank you so much, I think I smile because “I’m happy to be alive.” and I thank God for this life by smiling. Have a great day ahead with big smile 🙏💐.
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If you don’t believe in god, do you still smile?
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I believe in God and Yes I still smile for giving me loving family, great parents and wonderful siblings.
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Beautiful!❤
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Thank you, have a wonderful day ahead 🙏😊💕
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It definitely is easy to smile…sending a big smile back at you Anjali. Great post, thank you.
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Thank you so much, have a wonderful day with big smile🙏😊💕
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A smile can do only good! Is changing our life! Keep smiling and have a wonderful day! ☺️
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Thank you so much, you too have a great day 🙏😊💕
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Beautiful!!
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Thank you 🙏💕
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💖xo
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Have a great day ahead💖😊
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Thank you lovely. You too 💖xo
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