Self love!!

I always loved myself, sometimes I feel I am best. Is it’s wrong to think that? No, I always felt if I love myself….if I take care of myself, and if I respect myself, then only others will do. And if I will love myself, I will know the art of loving others.

When you love yourself, you glow from the inside. You attract people who love, respect and appreciate your energy. Love and luck favors brave, be fearless to love yourself. To love yourself is to be in awe of the miracle of your existence.

Loving yourself is a win-win for all. It is about knowing your values and your boundaries and honoring them. It is about teaching others how to treat you by showing them how you treat yourself. It is about being kind to yourself. It provides you with an inner happiness, confidence and peace of mind that is not easily swayed by outside events and opinions.

Understand your dreams, your desires….I am not asking you to be selfish…I am asking you to take care of yourself, which is not at all wrong.

But There is a very small difference between loving yourself and only loving yourself, there’s a very thin line between self-love and self-obsession, and many times people fail to understand this thin and small differences. Loving yourself is not at all bad, but loving yourself too intensely is not right and it will not help. So love yourself and also love other’s.

Everything starts with and how you feel about yourself. Start feeling worthy, valuable and deserving the best in life has to offer. Be Magnetic.

Thank you for reading ❤️


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© Anjali Sharma, Positive Side Of The Coin

89 thoughts on “Self love!!

  1. Thank you for this post. It helps a lot when you keep getting motivation from around you. Undoubtedly, self love and appreciation is the only thing that keeps you going and helps avoid low self esteem.

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  2. I so agree with this – being secure in yourself and loving yourself is quite different from morphing into a self absorbed narcissist! I love the last line – “be magnetic” – fabulous!

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    1. Narcissist and self-love, two different emotions all together, first one destroys person and later makes a person look beautiful and magnetic. One should understand the difference. Thank you for reading 💖🙏

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  3. True that…a wonderful note…👍🏻
    love for others can be realised if we are so full of it inside too,but yes there has to be clarity about self love and self obsession..

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  4. On point. As an empowerment coach and author, I tell my clients this all the time. Some people actually think that self love is selfish. However, ignorance always gets a wake up call.

    When we find ourselves getting stressed or compromising our health for helping someone because we don’t know how to say “No” to someone instead of saying “Yes ” to ourselves. We’ve all been there to some degree and must realize that self love is key to living our best lives.

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    1. Yes, totally agree with you….my husband is like that he doesn’t know how to say no, but now he is learning this habit from my three-year-old daughter as kids are innocent, and they know what they want. I always tell my people if you have forgotten to live life then, please learn from kids. I am happy as I know how to respect my needs and how to love myself, and this don’t make me selfish. I always give priority to my health and my needs as I know if I am healthy and happy, then only I will be able to take care of my loved ones. Thank you for visiting 🙏❤️

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  5. Wonderful post! Loving oneself isn’t selfish. Self-love is actually necessary to live a good, healthy, happy life 🙂 I believe it’s impossible to love others until we learn to love ourselves.

    Take care,

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  6. If we can’t love ourselves, how can we expect others to love us?
    I remember a child yelling at his mother that she didn’t love him as he’d been naughty and she’d punished him. She told him she would always love him, but at that particular moment she didn’t like him very much.

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    1. I understand what you are saying, you know my three-year-old is so full of confidence as she loves herself a lot, she always tells me she is the most beautiful girl, and she is her favorite and we love that in her…even I was like her….she is exactly like me. And I have noticed that everyone in loves her because of this. I feel that everyone should be like her self-confident and self loving. Thank you for reading ❤️🙏

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      1. I think that is wonderful.
        I always knew I was loved but never had a lot of confidence as a child and what little I did have was quashed at Grammar school.
        It’s all different now and has been for the last 30 odd years since meeting Hubby.

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        1. You know my grammar is worst, and I know that….if you check my blogs…you will find lots of grammar mistakes, but I really don’t care as I know what I want to convey to the world they understand and that’s called confidence. And that’s really good that now you have lots of confidence ❤️

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    1. Yes, as I look back I knew this art since childhood because of which I always got love and respect from my surroundings, and I always loved that pampering. It always boost confidence and we knew what exactly we wants from life. Thank you for reading 🙏❤️

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